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Romancing Paris & Beyond, Inspiration for your next trip

Bonjour! I’m Lily Heise, the writer and tour guide behind the award-winning site, Je T’aime Me Neither. Here you’ll find original ideas to explore Paris  and other destinations with a romantic twist, including hidden gems, cool bars and restaurants, incredible hotels, and other unique experiences.

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PARIS EXPERIENCES

Discover the real paris on Lily's Tours

Romantic Paris Tours

Explore the City of Love through intimate walks, fascinating stories, hidden corners and romantic places chosen especially for couples.

Custom Paris Experiences

Have something special in mind? Lily can design a private Paris experience around your interests, schedule and the kind of trip you want to have.

Neighborhood Tours

Go beyond the usual sights with engaging tours through Montmartre, the Marais, the Latin Quarter, Saint-Germain and other offbeat, secret districts.

Paris Trip Planning

Take the stress out of planning with personalized advice to help you create an amazing and memorable Paris trip.

From intimate romantic tours to personalized trip planning, discover Paris with the insight of a local expert who knows the city inside and out.

DESTINATIONS

Explore Paris & Beyond

Paris, France

Discover romantic places, hidden gems, date ideas, restaurants and unforgettable ways to experience the City of Love.

The Rest of France

Explore Provence, the Loire, Corsica, Occitanie, and other regions from new cultural discoveries and hotels.

Europe

Plan a car-free, carefree escape with beautiful places to stay, things to do and unforgettable island experiences.

Africa, Asia and South America

Get inspired for a romantic escape with local discoveries around the globe, with hotel reviews, cool activities and more.

LATEST

News & Latest Articles

My articles for international press and seasonal topics

The Ultimate Guide to Buenos Aires

Everything you need to get started with planning a trip to Buenos Aires.

A Car-free and Carefree Itinerary for Corsica, France

A full itinerary on what to do, where to stay and how to get around Corsica (for Frommer's).

Best Adventure Activities for an Adrenaline-Fueled Holiday in South Africa

Amazing adventure activities across South Africa, from zip-lining to kite-surfing (from TravelAge West).

New! My Paris Itineraries for your Perfect Paris Trip

Visit Paris with my best local tips, from famous sites to hidden gems!

Artisan Perfumers of Paris

The rising trend of artisan perfumers in Paris (for Jetsetter Magazine).

DATE NIGHT

Featured Paris Date Ideas!

Recent Articles & Seasonal Ideas for the City of Love

Paris, a Majestic City for Romantics

Insider tips on planning a romantic trip to Paris (for The Toronto Star).

The 12 Best Places to See the Eiffel Tower Without the Crowds

Track down these lesser-known vistas of Paris’ iconic landmark to escape the masses (for Fodor's).

Secret Romantic Places in Paris

Forget the Eiffel Tower and track down these romantic secret spots instead (for Fodor's)

Top 10 Most Romantic Places in Paris

Discover the top romantic spots in Paris shared with members of SHe Travel Club!

PARIS GUIDES

Romantic Paris by Arrondissement

Our Top 10 Best of Guides per Parisian District

10 Most Romantic Places in Paris: 20ème Arrondissement

Hip and edgy yet historic and charming, discover our top romantic places in Paris' 20th district!

10 Most Romantic Places in Paris: 18ème Arrondissement

Our mini-guide to the top secret places, bars, restaurants and other romantic places.

10 Most Romantic Places in Paris: 17ème Arrondissement

Discover hidden places, gorgeous parks and other surprises in our Romantic mini-guide to the 17th!

10 Most Romantic Places in Paris: 16ème Arrondissement

Elegant buildings, vast green spaces and incredible views of the Eiffel Tower, discover the top romantic spots of the 16th here.

10 Most Romantic Places in Paris: 15ème Arrondissement

A romantic discovery of the 15th arrondissement through unique green spaces, charming streets and a cool rooftop bar!

DISCOVER PARIS

Exploring Paris

Not Necessarily Romantic, But Great Ideas for discovering Paris

10 Fascinating Facts about the Opera Garnier

Do you know this lesser known tidbits about Paris' Palace of Music?

Bounce, the best way to store your luggage in Paris

Why drag your suitcase all over Paris when you don't have to?

Artisan Perfumers of Paris

The rising trend of artisan perfumers in Paris (for Jetsetter Magazine).

10 Fascinating Facts about the Moulin Rouge

Lesser known tidbits about the world's most famous cabaret!

Best Hidden Gardens in Paris

Secret and lesser known gardens in Paris to escape the crowds (for HiP Paris).

FOOD & DRINK

Paris Bars & Restaurants

Fantastic Food, Drinks & New Openings in Paris

6 of the Best Bistros in Paris

Quintessential bistros to try on your next trip to Paris (for TravelAge West).

Six of the Best Hotel Bars in Paris

Speak-easy style, sumptuous decors and romantic boudoirs, enjoy a fabulous drink at these top hotel bars (for TravelAge West).

The Most Romantic Historic Restaurants in the 6th

Surprise your date by taking them to these gorgeous historic restaurants, from bargain options to chic.

The Best Salads in Paris

Great and delicious salad options in Paris (for HiP Paris)

TRAVEL GUIDES

Romantic Travel Guides

Carefully Crafted Itineraries for Perfect Romantic Trips

A Romantic Guide to Bruges, Belgium’s City of Love

Insider tips on romantic things to do, hotels, restaurants and bars in Bruges (for TravelAge West).

Our Romantic Guide to Malta

Beautiful nature, a warm climate, fascinating history and intriguing cultural sites, discover our top tips for Malta.

Our Romantic Guide to Mallorca

How to plan the perfect romantic getaway to the Island of Love.

A Perfect Romantic Getaway to the Greek Islands: Santorini, Mykonos & Paros

Secret beaches, sunset cruises, cool hangouts and other romantic things to do in these Cycladic islands.

Our Romantic Mini-guide to Southern Africa

Unique, fun and offbeat romantic activities and places to stay in South Africa, Namibia, Botswana, Eswatini and Victoria Falls.

A Romantic Weekend in Lisbon

Our top tips for the perfect offbeat romantic weekend in Lisbon with cool things to do, the best romantic sites, seductive bars and excellent restaurants.

PLACES TO STAY

Romantic Hotels

A selection of wonderful boutique hotels perfect for romantic getaways

Unique Castle Hotels and Rentals in France

Enjoy an extra special holiday in France at these wonderful castles (for HiP Paris).

Mvuvi Boutique Hotel, a Stylish & Romantic Stay in Kiwengwa, Zanzibar

A beautiful, intimate and romantic boutique hotel on Zanzibar's lovely Kiwengwa beach.

Kilindi, the Perfect Romantic Retreat in Zanzibar

A one of a kind luxury hotel and romantic tropical paradise in Zanzibar.

The Most Romantic Apartment Rentals in Paris

Cozy love nests for the perfect couple's holiday in Paris (for HiP Paris)

7 of the Most Romantic Hotels in Paris for Couples

Love nests for your next romantic trip to Paris, the city of love! (for TravelAge West)

TRAVEL INSPIRATION

More Travel Inspiration

Unique Places, Fun Tours & Other Features to Get You Packing

Is Visiting Paris in Winter a Good Idea? Here’s What You Need to Know

The pros and cons of visiting Paris in winter, from uncrowded sits to great bargains!

The Best Baby-Friendly Attractions in Paris for New Parents

Useful tips and advice for traveling with little ones to Paris.

A Wellness Reset on Brittany’s Emerald Coast

How to recharge your batteries thanks to the benefits of the sea ( for The Toronto Star).

6 Romantic Hotels in Rome

Historic mansions, cozy intimate hideaways and luxurious palaces, these hotels are perfect for a romantic trip to Rome (for TravelAge West).

BY LILY

My Features for International & Local Publications

The Ultimate Guide to Buenos Aires

Everything you need to get started with planning a trip to Buenos Aires.

6 of the Best Bistros in Paris

Quintessential bistros to try on your next trip to Paris (for TravelAge West).

Beyond Machu Picchu: Peru’s Best Outdoor Adventures

The most exciting outdoor activities for thrill seekers visiting Peru.

10 Fascinating Facts about the Opera Garnier

Do you know this lesser known tidbits about Paris' Palace of Music?

What’s New in the South of France

From new cultural sites to new restaurants, great updates in Provence and the Cote d'Azur (for TravelAge West).

A Car-free and Carefree Itinerary for Corsica, France

A full itinerary on what to do, where to stay and how to get around Corsica (for Frommer's).